From the Floor to the Field

Back to the Work

I didn’t stop writing because nothing was happening.
I stopped writing because everything was happening.

The last time I was actively writing here was 2019. At that point, I was just getting started at Construction Implements Depot (CID), learning the business, the industry, and where I could add value.

Since then, the work — and the responsibility — has grown more than I could have imagined.

Over the past several years at CID, I’ve had the opportunity to grow through multiple roles. I started close to the floor, working directly with manufacturing operations and managing production teams. That meant schedules, output, people issues, bottlenecks, quality problems — the kind of work where results are immediate and accountability is clear.

From there, the role expanded.

I moved into operations leadership, then sales operations, and eventually into field sales leadership. Today, I’m focused on building and leading a high-level sales team responsible for generating millions of dollars in revenue each month across multiple territories.

That transition — from managing production on the shop floor to leading revenue growth in the field — has been one of the most challenging and valuable learning experiences of my career.

Because the skills don’t transfer automatically.

Managing manufacturing is about control, process, and consistency.
Leading a sales organization is about influence, accountability, mindset, and performance under uncertainty.

On the floor, you manage output.
In sales, you lead people who create opportunity.

I’ve had to learn how to recruit and develop high-performing talent, set clear expectations, coach performance instead of directing tasks, build structure without slowing momentum, and think in terms of growth, territory strategy, and long-term relationships.

And like most real learning, much of it came through mistakes, adjustments, and figuring things out in real time.

At the same time, outside of CID, I’ve been building MM Industries — learning what it takes to start something from the ground up, manage risk, handle operations, and make decisions where the results fall directly on you.

But the professional growth is only part of the story.

Over the past few years, my personal life has grown just as much.

I married my wife, Jeannie, who came to the United States from the Philippines and built her own path through hard work and persistence. She began her career at Walmart in an entry-level role and worked her way up into leadership, managing HR responsibilities and supporting large front-end and inventory teams.

That work ethic and steady growth mindset shows up in our life every day. She’s not only built her own career — she’s also been a steady partner behind the scenes, helping support the businesses, the decisions, and the pace that comes with building multiple things at once.

Today, we live in central North Carolina on the lake — a place that gives us room to think, plan, recharge, and keep building for the future. That environment, and the life we’re building together, will likely show up in future posts as well, because leadership and growth don’t happen in isolation from the rest of life.

All of this — the professional growth, the business building, and the personal foundation — is why I’m restarting this blog.

Why Start Writing Again

When you’re building, you stay in execution mode. You solve problems, make decisions, adjust, and move to the next challenge.

But over time, you realize something:

There are lessons in the work that are too valuable not to capture.

Not theory.
Not motivation.
Not highlight reels.

Real lessons from real responsibility.

This blog isn’t about looking back and summarizing success.
It’s about documenting what I’m learning as it happens.

What This Will Be

Going forward, this will be a collection of field notes from the work — what it actually looks like to build teams, grow revenue, start businesses, and make decisions when the answers aren’t obvious.

Most business content is written after the outcome. It’s cleaned up and presented like the path was clear.

That’s not reality.

Building anything meaningful involves pressure, uncertainty, tradeoffs, hard conversations, missed calls, and constant adjustment.

That’s what I’ll be writing about.

What You Can Expect

Most posts will fall into four areas:

Execution

  • Starting and growing a business

  • Sales, operations, and growth decisions

  • What’s working, what isn’t, and why

Leadership

  • Hiring and developing high performers

  • Accountability and culture

  • Coaching, difficult conversations, and leadership lessons (including the mistakes)

Operator Thinking

  • How decisions actually get made

  • Balancing risk and opportunity

  • Thinking like an owner, not just an employee

The Reality of Growth

  • Managing multiple responsibilities

  • Time, pressure, and tradeoffs

  • What the work actually looks like behind the scenes

The Perspective

There’s a space that doesn’t get talked about enough — the intersection of blue-collar execution and business strategy.

The people running equipment.
Managing crews.
Selling in the field.
Solving real problems for customers.

That’s where real businesses are built.

Strategy matters.
Execution matters more.

That operator mindset — what I think of as purple-collar thinking — is the perspective behind this blog.

Why Document Now

I’m not writing because I have everything figured out.

I’m writing because I’m in the middle of building.

Because leadership is learned under pressure.
Because growth isn’t clean.
Because responsibility changes how you think.

And because I know there are other people out there doing the same thing — building something, leading people, carrying the weight of results, and trying to get better every day.

If you’re building, leading, or trying to grow while carrying real responsibility, this is for you.

No hype.
No shortcuts.
Just the work — and what it teaches.

Let’s build.

Give Yourself Permission

“To uncover your true potential you must first find your own limits and then you have to have the courage to blow past them.” Picablo Street

 

This blog post is going to be a compilation of my thoughts on a quote which I heard at the Go-Pro Recruiting Mastery event in Las Vegas and the message at church this morning.

            The message this morning was all about giving yourself permission, allowing yourself to draw closer to God, to take things to the next level, to not holding yourself back. Then I was reviewing my notes from Go-Pro and came across probably my favorite quote from the whole conference, it’s the one above in bold.

            In the journey to finding our potential and blowing past our limits we must give ourselves permission. This isn’t a one day choice but rather a daily choice which will lead to a lifestyle. When we have made the habit of giving ourselves permission to blow by our limits then, and only then will we begin to see our true potential.

            Many times we underestimate the power of the mind, but everything starts with a decision, starts with giving ourselves permission to pursue whatever it is. Then our true potential is found in continuing to pursue what we’ve given ourselves permission to. That decision comes from within us, it’s not based on external circumstances but rather an internal mindset. When we stop trying to blame our success on our external circumstances and rather accept that the power to succeed is within us, we will truly begin to see our true potential and blow by our limits.

Choose to Smile

When I think of choices I think of the ability to choose to smile. Choosing to be happy even when life and its situations wouldn’t dictate that you would. Life is filled with things that will make you frown and be upset. Don’t you think when those things come you can choose to smile, you can choose to look at the positive?

Even when I’m not feeling as if everything is peachy in my life when someone says the phrase to me “how are you doing?” I reply with “Awesome!!” Why do I do that? When you decide to be positive even when things aren’t going perfectly it switches the mindset you have and suddenly everything in your life isn’t as bad as it could be. When you have the view that the situation in your life is so bad that it couldn’t get any worse that feeling can be debilitating. Rather choose to realize that things could always be worse ad better yet look for a solution. Sometimes the solutions do take time but choosing to be negative during those times will never help you through the issue. Instead of choosing to be positive and smile will give you added energy which you may not have thought you had.

In a post in the Huffington Post, it spoke to the fact that achieving goals and having that positivity of accomplishing things and taking action in our lives can release dopamine. In other words, when you feel sad or down or like nothing is going your way, get up, do something. When we wallow in self-pity and doubt we are allowing the dopamine and serotonin levels to dip. When we take action and achieve goals, it could be something as small as setting a goal to brush your teeth three times a day instead of two. Achieving that goal will release dopamine, also it will give you a sense of self confidence and felling important and valued will release serotonin.

Choose to be happy, it’s not just some silly life hack but it can actually be backed up with science. So smile. Choose to be happy. Choose to get up, set goals and crush them. The biggest thing though is, pass it on. Smile at someone in the store, be positive and upbeat with the cashier who is having a terrible day. Be happy, pass it on.

Copywriting Exercise: Obama vs. Modlin

This is a copywriting exercise where I am taking an excerpt from Barack Obama’s website and re-writing it for my own use. Since I plan on running for office in the somewhat near future, I thought this an excellent piece to re-write.


“On November 4, 2008, Barack Obama was elected the 44th President of the United States, winning more votes than any candidate in history. He took office at a moment of crisis unlike any America had seen in decades – a nation at war, a planet in peril, the American Dream itself threatened by the worst economic calamity since the Great Depression. And yet, despite all manner of political obstruction, Obama’s leadership helped rescue the economy, revitalize the American auto industry, reform the health care system to cover another twenty million Americans, and put the country on a firm course to a clean energy future – all while overseeing the longest stretch of job creation in American history. On the world stage, Obama’s belief in America’s indispensable leadership and strong, principled diplomacy helped wind down the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, decimate al Qaeda and eliminate the world’s most wanted terrorists, shut down Iran’s nuclear weapons program, open a new chapter with the people of Cuba, and unite humanity in coordinated action to combat a changing climate.



In times of great challenge and change, President Obama’s leadership ushered in a stronger economy, a more equal society, a nation more secure at home and more respected around the world. The Obama years were ones in which more people not only began to see themselves in the changing face of America, but to see America the way he always has – as the only place on Earth where so many of our stories could even be possible.”


Mr. Obama’s about page from which I have pulled this excerpt is informative and dreamy. It’s informative because it hits the high points of his administration and it’s dreamy because of the verbiage used. It’s well-written but also very flowery in the way it’s presented. He ties the issues he helped to solve back to well-known times in history, so there is some contrast going on. The second paragraph here sums everything up very generally and I am now going to attempt to re-write part of it for my own use. Part of this will be fictional because I have not been elected yet, but you can imagine with me.


In the 34th year of Matthew Modlin’s life, he decided to start his campaign to become the youngest President of the United States. The years he would serve as president were set to be the toughest years in history. America was on the precipice of a war with China, its national debt was more than it’s GDP, and there was a near revolution in the land, not unlike the war that started this great country. Even amidst all this turmoil and strife, Matthew had the vision to see America through these trying times and lead it to the heights known as the greatest country on earth. His leadership would end the wars, pay down the debt and calm those who were ready for a revolution. His strong background in ministry, finance, business, and public service was the pool he pulled the skills needed to accomplish the rebuilding of the American dream. After Matthew’s election, the world realized that once again America was not to be trifled with and the evil of the world shook at the administration of Matthew. Matthew saw to it that the American people were employed, free of civil strife, and had the means to achieve their dreams.


Matthew will work tirelessly to ensure that the quality of America's life is what the generations beforehand experienced. This will take the talent, resourcefulness, and immense skill set which Matthew possesses to ensure that he can deliver on his promises. He enjoys a challenge and has the stamina to see America in the future it deserves.

The Power of Choices in Your Life

Choices. In this life, there are many things I’ve learned but none quite so as important as the power and the multitude of choices to make. Life is the product of many choices, most of them being small. There are choices we make every day that many don’t even think of as choices because they’ve created habits out of them. Something as simple as putting our feet over the side of the bed is a choice. It’s a choice we make almost automatically because we have to get up.

            As to the power of choices, we are a product of our choices. Some could say that I’m making the nature versus nurture argument here in a roundabout way, maybe in some small way yes but that’s not my focus here. When I meet people and become friends with them, and learn about who they are, I almost automatically want them to make choices which will render at their feet their dreams.  I want them to make choices which will push them to their greatest potential and ultimately towards the plan God has for their lives.

            By illustrating the power of all of the small choices in individuals live I hope that it makes them take life a little more seriously, even the smallest of choices. When we realize that our future is the culmination of the choices we have made. Then we can make different choices to arrive at a different future. We must never underestimate the power of choices if we do we will be relying solely on our reflex reactions to situations in our life.

            Many times the choices we make are a product of those in our lives who have been placed in similar situations in our life make. Education and those we surround ourselves with are what is critical in making good decisions. Even those that we surround ourselves with are a product of our choices. Up to a point it is about nurture but once we get to a place where we are on our own we can make choices that change the way we were nurtured, People should never think that they are trapped because there are always different choices which can be made to make your life better.

Don’t let poor choices define you. If you make poor choices, learn from them and when faced with a similar situation, make a different and better choice informed by your poor choice. If there is something that you’re faced with, step back, almost out of the situation and think about what you would tell someone else in your current situation. That tactic will help you to view things in a better light and make smarter choices. Always surround yourself with people that will support you but also stand up to you when you’re about to make a poor choice. In short, choices are everything, think twice, and choose once.

National Organizations

As a youth, I was presented with many neat opportunities to be a part of organizations and to learn while being in them, one of which was the FFA. I was privileged to be a part of one of the first two homeschool chapters ever in the history of the FFA. This was a unique opportunity because it meant our club was setting a precedence and we had a teacher that was key to it is a good one.

My first career development event was the Environmental and Natural Resources event. During the preparation you this event you learned all about wildlife, forestry, soils, aquatics, current environmental issues and there was a presentation component. I would not trade the knowledge and the personal development preparing for that event and being a part of the FFA afforded me. Especially the ability to be a part of the largest youth organization in all of America.

The FFA has their iconic dress code which is a white collared shirt, black slacks and the ever iconic blue corduroy jacket with the emblem and name of your club. The team I was a part of for the Environmental and Natural Resources event progressed to the national level where we placed 13th in the nation. Going to national convention was surreal as there were literally tens of thousands of students wearing the same uniform as you. I’m not big on matching with everyone but in this case, it was alright because it meant I was part of a much greater community.

I was the secretary for my club so that helped me with note taking skills and gave me the experience I would use for when I was in the leadership of other organizations. Also, we had to use the parliamentary procedure as dictated by Robert’s Rules of Order and that is an invaluable talent in the business world. That along with the exposure to presenting and public speaking will pay endless dividends in my life. Being a part of something greater, something almost everyone in America has heard of or knows of is a great networking tool besides. If you’re a young person and you have a chance to be a part of a national organization, do it, you won’t regret it.

The Joy of Owning a Car

The joy of owning a new car. In my short twenty two years, I have owned six cars. My first car was bought at the age of sixteen before I even had my driver’s license. The joy and excitement you get from having something that is such a tool as a car is incredible. I love the freedom of knowing that I can go anywhere I want whenever I want.

My first car was a 1995 Buick Regal, it had dents and was in no way perfect but it was something that could get me from point A to point B. The funny thing is that I sold that car before I could even drive it to my dad. Before I went to college I purchased a 1993 Toyota Corolla, it was from a family friend and it had been well maintained but as you can imagine it wasn’t fancy. After my first year at school, I got a personal caregiving job which required me to drive my client to different locations. My ’93 Corolla just was not conducive to that as it was small and not the level of car you want to chauffeur a wealthy client around in.

I then purchased a 2015 Toyota Corolla, brand new off the lot. I was so excited, it was brand new and me, Matthew Modlin had bought it and was paying for it. In the first eight months after purchasing my new car, I had put over fifteen thousand miles on it. The putting on of miles came to a screeching halt when I was hit by a drunk driver, another story for another time. That car was totaled after which I purchased another Corolla the same year with more features and fewer miles.

Since then I’ve bought another couple of vehicles. The joy and freedom of having your own driving machine make me almost at a loss for words. In the last few years I was working on school and was a workaholic while doing it, I wasn’t at home for long periods of time. This means that my car was in some ways my home. It was the one thing that I owned which was large enough to house me. It was my sanctuary. So many good memories have been made because of having a car. The late night food runs with friends, the dates, and numerous road trips. A car has the ability to take you places and facilitate you see things you never would have otherwise. It’s a tool that you can use to make money and it’s an item that you can use to have fun. If you don’t have a car, buy one. The sense of joy you get by owning one is unmatched and the memories are endless.

A Dream Company

Do you ever like to think about things in the future? Tonight as I had a conversation with other Praxis participants I pitched an idea, and I want to take a little time and tell you about it. For a future job, it would be awesome to bring together a group of people with varying talents but all at the top of the proverbial totem pole with their various talents, and have a team that would go into companies who were failing and totally revamps them.

            This idea comes from a love of problem solving. When there is a problem, finding solutions is my game. For example, at work, my department is building more and more products for our company. With that exciting development comes challenges, namely organization, and space for the added parts. The challenge of finding room and keeping everything organized is fun and exciting. That may be on a small scale you say, but that’s where all good skills are born.

            This company that is in the future would be called upon when companies were failing or in dire needs if better management. The company may not even be going under but this consulting/managing company would pitch improvements to the company and then come in to orchestrate them. That’s why the team for this company would have to be made up of the best and brightest in their fields since its money jobs and futures we’re talking about.

            This may be an in the future for myself and those I pitched the idea to but the thought of making things better is appealing. The feeling of creating fluidity out of chaos would be the fuel this company would thrive on. Have a company that needs better management and practices? Call us, we’ll make it happen.

Listen before you Speak

Listen before you speak. It’s such a simple task but something that is so hard to follow. Why is it so hard to follow? It’s because we all want to be heard. We all want others to hear what we have to say because we have an innate desire to be the center of attention and to be right if the matter is a decision to be made. From the time we are a small baby we are making sounds and drawing attention to ourselves.

We get so caught up in speaking so that we can be heard, that we forget to stop and listen. Our society has a message that we should speak up so we can be heard, this is true to an extent, but how many people do you hear speaking up that could have remained silent? Maybe that’s harsh, but silence while still focusing on a subject can produce something worth saying. The more thought, planning and even research that is put into something before you do it, in this case, speak, the better it will be.

How often have we spoken and said something when if we had just been quite for a few seconds later, we wouldn’t have even had to speak? Or how often have we opened our mouths and said something only to have to, figuratively, stick our foot in our mouths? We can probably think back to a couple of instances where this happened to us recently.

Think and listen before you speak, it’s something that doesn’t hurt anyone but can help everyone in the room where you are. Most importantly it’s a good habit to form, if you are always the last person to speak, people will listen because you are the one that barely speaks. We all know when there’s less of something that there is a demand for it. Be the person that everyone wants to hear speak because they know what comes out of your mouth will be thoughtful and wise.

Laziness

This post is going to be a combination of several of the concepts which I have written about. As my thoughts went to what this week’s blog posts would be about, my mind made it to the things I’m passionate about and the things which make me, me. One specific pet peeve that has been on my mind is laziness. I thought of using a different word but I like the effect that laziness has on the mind, for me at least it’s a disgusting weird feeling I get when I hear it.

There are numerous things to be lazy about, there’s work, there’s school, there are friendships and the list could go on and on. The one that I specifically worry about is my generation’s view of work. I’m reminded again and again when I either work with those in my generation or watch their attitude towards work how lazy a lot of us have become. I was raised with the mentality that you work until the job is accomplished and you do what you have to do to get the job done. Now when I say this I’m not saying that you break morality or cut unethical corners but just that you figure out a way to get things done.

I suppose I’m a horse of a different color, but I don’t always like doing things the easiest way. It’s like this mental guard I’ve put up against laziness because I don’t want myself to become lazy, therefore sometimes I’ll choose a harder way to do something. It’s also that I’ve seen that sometimes setting things up to accomplish them easier takes more times than just doing it a physically harder way. Now if it’s something that takes more time initially so that your job will be easier for a long time to come, I’m all for that.

Laziness stems from a mindset and from an acute misunderstanding of one’s responsibility. It also can come from the idea that “I’m entitled”. When you get to the place where that is your mentality, watch out, because we are not entitled to anything.

My biggest quandary with watching the workplace today is, how do I inspire others to a greater work ethic and sense of responsibility? How do I get those I work with to stop saying “that’s not my job” and instead ask “what can I do to help”? I desperately want to know how to change my generation’s perception and view of work and responsibility because I truly believe changing people’s laziness can change this world. Being lazy means you don’t want to contribute, or that you do but without any actual work being done, and that’s no good!

Value Proposal for Construction Implement Depot

To:

Jon Williams

President

Construction Implement Depot

 

Summary

            The purpose of this proposal is to create an alpha-numeric parts system which will, upon implementation, increase the efficiency of Construction Implement Depot (CID). The goals of this proposal are 1. To create parts lists for every item we build and  2. To organize the parts room by creating defined spaces for each part, then labeling each part with a corresponding code and description.  With this system in place, whenever a sales order is created, it would include an attached file itemizing each part needed to fill the order. With this expanded sales order form, the kit builder would then be able to have an itemized checklist to take to the parts room for consistent and accurate retrieval of parts needed to complete the order. There would be a separate file/parts list for every product CID manufactures. An added benefit of this proposal is that training materials would be more in depth, easier to understand and training would be easier for supervisors and it would also work towards a lower turnover rate.  This system would make it so that any trained employee would be able to efficiently pull the parts needed to fulfill the given order. To be able to complete an accurate parts list, Barret, Kevin and Mike would need to be consulted for accurate diagrams and parts lists. The estimated time-frame is to complete the system and have it ready for implementation when we do the yearly inventory the first week of July. That way any parts which need to be moved or arranged could be taken care of along with the task of inventory. The proposed time frame for this project is May 21st-July 2nd.

 

Reason

            The completion of this project will aid CID’s efficiency and cohesiveness between departments. With the newly updated and detailed diagrams, parts lists, alpha-numeric labeling, and organized part room, mistakes will be greatly reduced or eliminated, enhancing overall production setting the stage for continued and aggressive growth for CID. The improved organizational system will also set a frame work for ease of updating whenever our products are enhanced or modified. 

 Primary Objectives

1.      Create a complete alpha-numeric parts system which encompasses both part rooms.

2.      Create parts lists using an alpha-numeric code which sales can attach to the order and display on the back side of the ticket.

3.      Label each spot in the parts room with an alpha-numeric part number, full dimensions, and a clear image of the part.

4.      Create a well-defined spot for each part using labels and dividers.

 

Secondary Objectives

5.      Create visual aids for each part to provide the parts department personnel with tools to become better versed in the shapes and sizes of the individual parts.

6.      Create layouts of the kits for each product on the pallets and then photograph and video each complete product kit to use for better training, orientation, and a more systematic approach to the parts room which will, in turn, extend to the welders.

 

 Resources Needed

1.      Basic training on using the current software to dissect all of our products so as to create accurate parts lists, diagrams and labels.

2.      The periodic availability of each department manager to ensure that part lists, diagrams and labels are accurate.

3.      The use of a company computer for creating parts lists, diagrams and labels will be needed.

4.      Access to and use of materials for creating organization of the parts room.

 

 Conclusion

            By creating these updated and accurate parts lists, labels and diagrams, this organization will reduce waste in misplaced parts, it will improve quality control, create better time management for employees and more accuracy in kit building. This, in turn, will facilitate continued and progressive growth for CID. Thinking ahead to the future, this will lay the ground work for a more expansive and overall parts inventory system which will be better equipped to handle the explosive growth we have already been experiencing.

The Power of No

When we’re asked to do something it’s nice to be able to say yes. If you take any sort of sales training you want the customer to say yes. Our world is a plethora of ads which all implore us to say yes. Say yes to toothpaste, say yes to this restaurant, say yes to this theme park, say yes to this car, say yes to this house, just to name a few. In short, people love when you say yes. Your friends love when you say yes to going out with them, your fiancé hopes you’ll say yes when he asks you to marry him, and your boss hopes you’ll say yes to staying when you have an offer somewhere else.

            I say all of that to make the point that saying no is needed at times more than yes. I love to say yes but I also have been learning the power of no. When my friends want me to go out with them I always want to say yes because I’m a social person and I love being with people, but I’ve been learning to exercise the power of no. Should we say yes to our friends when we’ve been up for sixteen hours and have to work the next day? Or when we have work to do and we want to procrastinate on it, but we know we shouldn’t.

            If you’re feeling overwhelmed, learn to say no. There have been times in my life where the realization of saying no has been greater. When you are faced with time restraints, chances are there are several things that you should say no to. When you are faced with the choice of whether to continue in a bad or time consuming habit you should say no. When you are faced with the reoccurring temptation to do something detrimental to you and those closest to you, the answer should be no.

            No is a powerful word. Using the word No can declutter your entire life. We live in a world which has a constant pressure on us to say yes, those that know when to use the word No appropriately will be much farther down the road than those which continually say yes. Evaluate your life, what are some things you could say no to? They may not be bad or evil, but they also aren’t helping you achieve your goals, so say no to them, declutter your life.

Embrace Failure

Embrace failure. This may be an odd concept and you’re instantly screaming noooooo. Failure is the last thing that people want to encounter. Failure is what we all shy away from and strive to never allow to happen to us. What if we actually embraced failure when it happened? Not go searching for it but never allow failure to destroy us.

            Failure teaches us what not to do. If you go through a spot of failure or where things do not work out the way that they were supposed to, there is always something that you can learn from it. The more that we learn the more knowledge we have and the ore knowledge we have the better decisions that we can make. When we can make better decisions we have a better life.

            Failure is not something to be feared with trepidation but rather something that can be viewed as a way to learn new skills. Those skills you learn within the realms of conflict resolution and problem solving will be skills that will serve you many lives over. Failure is a chance to try again, it’s a chance to do something again better. Dreams are built on a foundation of learned skills because of failure.

Grit and Determination, You Can Do It

Just over a year ago I was in the city of Atlanta with the client that I cared for who suffered from Alzheimer’s/Dementia. We went to Atlanta to escape the ravages of hurricane Irma as it barreled for south Florida. Originally when the plans were being made to take my client to Atlanta there was to be another caregiver assisting me in the transport and needs of my client. As details were finalized I was the only caregiver that was going to be able to travel with my severely confused client.

            I clocked in early in the morning we were to fly to the airport as I was to pack my client and ensure that I would have everything I could possibly think of. When I was done packing for him and myself the luggage was around two hundred and fifty pounds. By myself and with the help of God I was able to get my client to Atlanta, get all of the luggage off of the plane, rent a car and get to the hotel. Throughout this week my client was very confused and even thought he was in a different city. By the tie this trip was over I had been on the clock over one hundred eighty hours never getting more than four hours of continuous sleep during those days.

            I tell you all of that to get to the point that no matter the odds, no matter the tasks in front of you, just keep taking one step at a time. Don’t ever get in the mindset that you may not be able to accomplish what you’ve been asked to do. Rather, come up with solutions to the obstacles which are in front of you. Never give up! It’s like a quote I read a long time ago, “The difference between success and failure, is getting up one more time” Nathan Dahler.

            Many times the tasks that are in front of us either for our job or in our personal lives seem like we’ll never be able to get them done, but they can be accomplished by persevering. Some other quotes which I’ve had quoted to me many times by my other are “pull yourself up by your boot straps”, and “don’t stop till the job is finished”. Those are possibly some of the most powerful admonitions which I’ve ever received because you can apply them to any area of life, and they work. It’s all about mind-set, focus, grit, determination, and perseverance. We all have those things, we just have to make the choice to use them.

Spot Opportunities, Learn Skills

If there’s one thing I could tell someone that is younger than me, it’s to learn any skills you can. I was blessed to have a mother that made sure I knew how to do most anything in the house. She taught me how to clean, sew, cook, iron, fold clothes, and bake, just to name a few big ones. These skills have proven invaluable and have assisted me in getting at least one high paying job and taught me skills that are transferable to my personal life as well as my professional life.

            Never underestimate the value of learning a skill no matter how menial it may seem. Some people may not have someone to teach them skills such as my mother was able to teach me but there may be someone in your life that can teach you other skills. If there is something that you can learn from someone around you, do it, it will be of value to you. You may not see how the skill will be used at this moment but you never know where down the road you may need that skill or the principles that each skill teaches you.

            Some of the menial tasks which I mentioned are skills that I’ve seen individuals with the opportunity to learn, shy away from or not take the time. I view that as a huge mistake, those household jobs that people didn’t take time to learn when they had the opportunity are things that you can use for your whole life. I’ve used all of the skills I mentioned except for sewing, during a paid position.

            If there is a skill you have the opportunity to learn, don’t discount it. I’ve always learned all I could at the jobs I’ve been at and I could tell you story after story of how it has solidified my job and gained me reward and responsibility. Work hard, spot opportunities to learn and then the seize them.

Fake it 'till Make it

We’ve all heard the saying “fake it ‘till you make it”. I’ve pondered whether there is truth in the statement or not. I think it depends on how you mean the statement and what your focus is when you say it.

            If what you’re faking is something that you actually want to be or accomplish and you’re actively working on it, then I believe the statement can be rendered true. If you’re faking something that has no bearing on your real goals or desires then the statement is false.

            When there is something you want or desire to be you start learning about it. What steps it will take to get there and what it will require. So as you journey to the place you want to be its easy to act like you’re there, and people actually believe it. They believe it because you do know what you’re talking about due to the steps you are taking to learn what it takes to get there.

            If you’re faking something that you have no real interest in, then it’s easy to see through the fake because it’s not real to you. I’m a young man who hopes to become a successful businessman and politician, I may not be there yet but I am working to get there so it’s easy for me to pull off living in that mind-set. Now if I were to try and pull off living in the mind-set of a veterinarian, which would be absurd because I know very little about them or their profession.

“Faking it ‘til you make it” isn’t as bad as it may sound. I believe that putting yourself in the mindset and on the path of the person you want to become can help you tremendously. It plays into a belief in yourself. If you don’t believe that you can accomplish what you’ve set out to, then stop, what’s the point in going on? There isn’t one. That’s why I believe in the statement “fake it ‘till you make it”.

iPhone vs. Android

I’m writing this blog post with an Apple phone on my left and an Android on my right. They’re both great phones, one an iPhone 8+ and the other a Samsung Note 9. I’m not going to try and convince you that one is better than the other rather I think we can liken these two phones to people.

            When I look at people I see those that would be iPhone, they’re simple, compact, sleek and possess a smooth operating system because it’s not bogged down by any outside programming. On the other hand, I see those Androids they possess a lot of neat features, almost too many to have them all operating as perfectly as the fewer features on the IPhone. Androids can be customized and can be much more the heavy users and technically minded phone.

            You know people that are in your life who are simple and smooth and would remind you of an iPhone. These people are consistent and conscientious and always there when they have said they will be. These people aren’t the life of the party, but they’re the glue which helps to keep your life together. They’ll hold you when you’re sad and cheer you on when you’re happy.

            On the other hand, you have the fast-paced high-functioning people. They’re accomplishing a lot but are not as systematic about they’re the approach. These people love breaking molds and shooting for the stars. They’re the life of the party and the idea people for what should happen next. Living without a constant structure is easier for these people because they adapt well and can handle a lot of stress and pressure. You need these people too because they’re the people who’ll make you laugh when things are tough and distract you when you’re sad.’

            The point is you need both, there is power in difference. God never designed for any two of us to be alike. You can split us up into more centralized categories like I did, but that was to make the point that being different is okay. Different people and personalities are the spice of life. They keep life interesting and you need both in your life at different times for different reasons.   

One Word-Transformational

Several months ago I was made aware of a self-help concept that if practiced can be quite revolutionary. I learned it while taking a course by Michael Bernoff and then have heard my pastor say that he uses the hack and he comes from a John Maxwell leadership background. What is it you ask? It’s so simple that you may not believe it.

            When you are wasting odious amounts of time doing nothing useful, scrolling through Twitter, commenting on senseless posts on Facebook and watching a YouTube video on how to train a snake, you really are accomplishing nothing. Do you have a way to make yourself stop? Is it just a large amount of self-discipline or do you have a hack to make yourself get up and do something productive?

            The hack that was given to me chose a word, a word that gives you a terrible feeling, a feeling that you want to reverse. This isn’t necessarily to make you feel like a terrible person but rather to make you want to reverse your actions. Choose a word that will jolt you out of your senseless time-wasting and will provide the fuel to motivate you into doing something which is profitable.

            The word that I chose is laziness. If I had to name a pet peeve it would be laziness. When there is a job to do I was taught that you roll up your sleeves and you work until the job is accomplished. So when I think of myself as being lazy it makes me want to reverse that.

            What word will motivate you? What word will jolt you into a productive action?

Dream Big, Achieve Big

Who loves to drive? I do! Over the last 3 years, I have driven around twenty five to thirty thousand miles a year. Some people drive more and many drive less but my point here isn’t about the mileage but rather about the mental state you have to be in to drive those miles. How many have driven when they’re tired? I have and it’s no fun and if you don’t know your limits and when you should pull off then it could be quite dangerous. One of the most powerful things I have found is having the goal of getting to point B and the thought that I can do it, gets me farther down the road than thinking I can’t do it.

            Just today I told someone that I’d rather set goals and not achieve them rather than stop dreaming. Sometimes your goals are just that, dreams, but if you’re anything like me your goals motivate you. Just like me driving long distances and thinking that I could do it, our dreams are many times distant but we’ll never get there or even get close if we don’t have that dream.

            Goals are the most effective if you set smaller manageable steps on the way to achieving those goals, like mile markers when you’re driving and then you drive past mile marker after mile marker because you become emboldened passing those mile markers. When you start blowing past mile markers on a seven hundred mile trip your mind believes that you can make it. When we have goals in our lives just set small manageable steps and then just knock them out on your way to the top.

            Always dream, it helps your mind to be in the right perspective for life and can help you accomplish more than you ever thought possible. Sometimes I don’t think peoples dreams are big enough, they sell themselves short because they’re not confident in their abilities. So dream larger than what your life is right now, you may not get to those exact dreams but you will make it farther than if you didn’t have those dreams. Also, sometimes on the way to achieving those big dreams, we find new dreams that actually satisfy us more than the original dream.